Urdu word "bay ghar بے گھر" meaning not owning a own home, when mis pronounced by children (not grewup in Urdu speaking environments), may sound like "bey gar" but not the English word beggar, not even remotely. Like urdu words "bay car بے کار" meaning not owning a car or use less/ worth less. -------------------------------------------------------------------- It was not a confidence building or bully raising technique/strategy to let grown ups do what they want to do even when it was wrong from every point of view. They can do anything within a framework. Perhaps it will be a desirable technique at early age of children, but after a certain age they should be corrected and blocked from wrong doings in the interest of other as well. In child hood children are rewarded by parents for wrong doings and mistakes but temporarily just for confidence building, other relatives and Grand parents intervene to teach the children what was right. After a certain age...
